Archives For Public Speaking

My eclectic background includes radio and club DJ, MC, Trainer, and Pastor. I have spoken for decades in a wide variety of settings. I am comfortable speaking to a wide variety of groups including all ages and settings, community, business, religious, non-religious, etc.

Whether I’m invited to speak at a corporate meeting, a community event, or a church group, I’ve learned to work through the five Ws to assure an excellent experience for all involved.

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If you are an experienced speaker, these will be a helpful reminder to master the basics.

If you’ve never spoken in public before and you just learned that YOU are the speaker at the meeting you were looking forward to attending, these might help you manage the fears and feel prepared.

The Five Ws

“Who, What, Where, When, and Why” is the traditional order of the Five Ws. So, I’ve kept that in mind while writing this. Beyond the first W, the following are not necessarily in order of importance.

We may not be able to answer all of the following questions every time. The following are just a guide. You may be able to answer some of these through online research but I would recommend verifying your findings to assure they are still relevant. An organization may have just changed top leadership and are getting ready for an entirely new vision.

Sometimes, we may be called upon to speak without knowing ANY of the following information. In those times, we have to trust our message and be ready to assess and adapt in the moment as much as possible.

Know Your Who — the Audience

Learn as much as possible about the attendees. Age, profession, roles, ethnic makeup(?), personality/culture.

Know Your What — the End Result

What you expect the audience to do/feel/think as a result of your message.

Know Your When — the Timing

We need to respect everyone’s time! Know when you supposed to start and end. Know how to track your time while speaking.

Know Your Where — the Setting

The room (small, medium, gigantic), the contacts, technology, handouts(?)

Know Your Why — the Purpose of the Gathering

Why are they meeting? Regular event? Resolve issues?

This is a grid to help focus your thoughts and questions. I will flesh these out in future articles.  This might be a good time to subscribe so you’ll receive future posts in your inbox.

I have long heard that public speaking is ranked as one of people’s greatest fears-usually higher than their fear of death. Recently, I became aware that many people share a common fear of certain technology as well — the fear that they’ll never get it. Oddly enough, two of those great fears converge in our modern setting for public speaking and PowerPoint (or any other presentation software).

Unfortunately, many presenters and audiences share that same fear of the dreaded PowerPoint. Some presenters don’t even know where to start when it comes to PowerPoint. Some audiences fear Death by PowerPoint.

Frits Ahlefeldt death-by-presentation

I have been speaking with and without software for over thirty years. I’d like to offer some encouragement and suggest a few simple, but powerful, principles to save your next presentation.

Can We Talk?

Allow me to slip into motivational mode for a bit. Often our fear is based on the unknown or the worst possible outcome. It may help to realize that most of our fears are much worse than the reality could EVER be. I heard a great acronym that can help take the teeth out of fear. F E A R = False Evidence Appearing Real.

Sometimes we allow fears to paralyze us into inaction. Some fears in our life are good. They keep us from doing foolish or dangerous things. Other times fear keeps us from the success and effectiveness that we were destined and designed for.

The other major cause of fear is the unknown. We don’t fully know or understand something, so we’re unsure and unskilled. Learning new concepts and new skills can be solid ways to “punch fear in the face” (as Jon Acuff would encourage us to do). To overcome the fear of the unknown, sometimes learning new skills is all we need.

Overcome Your Fear of Technology

One of the reasons that Bill Gates and Microsoft are as wealthy as they are is that they have created a product that is generally intuitive and relatively easy to use. I realize some readers will laugh hysterically at that while other readers will find great comfort in those words. Continue Reading…